Projects and plans

Time to show you whats on my agenda. First up:



Recognize this table family? Yes it's mom and dads the rail is broken so in considering removing the rails and tiling the top and painting the bottom.
Next up:



This is my $15 chair from Salvation Army. Dad cut put a new board for the back. Now to pull off the seat and the back, sand it a bit, re-seal it and put a fun color on it with better padding.
Next up:



HUGE frame street find (yep picked the garbage!). Considered making a BIG bulletin board. Have some cork board from another thrift shop run... Still debating.
Next up:



Street find (yep garbage again) it needed some TLC and some glue with clamps. That was ax imploded. (Hum wonder what that sentence was to be? Cell phone auto correct did me wrong!) Now to paint or just shine it up and sell it? Hum...Tempted to tile the top and use it for plants.
Next up:



A donation from my MIL. still debating what I'm doing with it.
Next up:






My nifty $5 find today a folding rolling cart. I can see this in a bright cheery yellow!!

Project

My next project. An antique ironing board. I'm in LOVE with the architectural feel to these and honestly NEVER thought I would find one!
And Linda will be happy to hear there is no paint in this projects future.
I also have. A cute wood chair to redo. AND do you guys remember the round coffee table? I think it will be painted and the rail removed AND a tile top put on it. Mosaic style. What do you think? Pictures to come in those in the "before" mode as well.

Odds and ends

Cool mushroom at M&Ds house

Cooler lacy mushrooms @ work

My bulletin board @ work. Yep, I did this. Shoulda been a teacher. Naw, doesn't pay well enough!
Detail in the motivational sayings:



This was accomplished on my "work avoidance" Friday ;)



Hahaha. I need this sexy beast for my car !!

Saturday update

I have nothing....sad, I know. I should... Mom and I went to find the body shop recommended to her... They're not open on Saturday. We'll go back Monday lunch time. So today was a morning jont to get moms car back to her. I didn't have a set if keys - woops!! Then a trip to see dad...a drive home...a bit of nothing after that....
So here's moms "newsy" letter...
I’ve been telling everyone that Dad won’t use the telephone and Robert called me to tell me to tell Dad that there was a BYU game on TV today and I told him that Dad doesn’t watch TV. Then I look at the answering machine a little while later and there is a message from guess who? Dad.
Donna that I was going up there on the freeway and if the light fell off the car, so be it. She suggested that I tape it on! Why didn’t we think of that before? So I got my trusty duct tape out and taped it on and off I went.
The reason I wasn’t home when he called was because I went to Wal-Mart to find strawberry Ensure and small puddings and Jell-O in hopes of getting him to eat something.
Then when I get there guess what he’s doing? Watching a football game on TV. So needless to say, he’s feeling much better.
The nurse did get him some meds to calm his stomach and he said he ate more breakfast and lunch than usual but just picked at his dinner while I was there. He didn’t want the stuff I brought except for the Jell-O so I left some there for him and will take some more tomorrow. He tasted the pudding and said it was OK but didn’t want any then so I left some of that too. That’s OK though as long as he’s eating better I’ll not worry anymore. The nurse that brought his dinner in tonight said she would have the dietician come in and talk to him so she can see that he gets what he likes. I brought Honey Nut Cheerio’s but he forgets to tell them that there is some in a bag on his end stand and they serve him plain cheerio’s with lots of sugar on it. Yuk. But he said it’s hard to think when they wake him up to feed him early in the morning. Donna came up about 3 and we were talking away and look over and Dad’s sound asleep. His hip was hurting him so he finally called for a pain pill and it put him to sleep. So Donna left and I laid on the other bed and took a rest for about ½ hour until his dinner came.
He was so happy to have a rest from the all day PT. They did do about an hour’s worth in the morning but he got to lay in bed and relax the rest of the day. He’ll have tomorrow off too.
He got sucked into a football game at 5:00 so I left to come home. I had planned to leave at 6:00 and should have because as soon as I got on the freeway it started pouring down rain and rained hard all the way home until I got to the peach county line as usual.

Mustache you...

Nice 'stach, eh?

My thoughts from Friday and a note from Mom....

To my defense, I have NOT had a computer for a very long time, so updating with a lot of "talking"   Pictures, yes, typing, no... it's hard on a cell phone.
Last night I got my disk restore from Dell - about time, that was a goat rope and a half.  I had put in the order via phone for a restore disk and they sent an EMAIL confirmation of the order and when I didn't respond, they cancelled the order.  DER... think I didn't respond because I didn't have a computer.  Dorks.  So, this time, I did it on line and did a link - and the disk finally got here.  WHOOP!  I started it setting up last night, but left to go visit Dad with mom.. Thursday I didn't get over to see Dad, I had kids here there in football games and practice.  So I stayed home, let Liz take the car to practice and caught up with poor Angela a bit.  So - the computer is now functional and getting loaded with all the necessary software... just one more task in the long line of tasks....

My take on the visit Friday was that dad is tired, but working towards the rehab and getting things moving on rehab and getting out of there.  The issue with the nausea is being addressed as of last night - the nurse is going to give him some meds that should help with the nausea, they'll time it before lunch and dinner in an effort to get his appetite back up and calm the nausea.

Anyway, this is what Mom has to say about the whole thing:

Dad was about the same last night, getting a little upset (which I think is one step better than depressed) with his condition but that is to be expected. Donna brought a Cribbage board but he wasn’t quite up to that yet but hopefully soon. He’s so tired and his muscles are sore after PT all day that he just wants to go to sleep. He said people come and stay too long and he’s not the type to be rude so I told him to not talk to them, slowly close his eyes and drift off to sleep and maybe they’ll get the hint. I don’t know though, Donna put a note on the hospital door to please keep their visits to 10 minutes because he needs his rest but they still stay a half hour or more. You get 2 or 3 visitors like that and it runs into hours of visiting. . I wish I could see what he’s doing in PT but they won’t let anyone visit during the day. He still won’t eat, hasn’t got his taster back and gets nauseous even smelling the food when they bring it in. I’m going to go shopping today and find some strawberry Boost or Ensure and see if he’ll drink that. I keep forgetting to tell the nurses that he drank that in the hospital. I’ll look for some little sugar free puddings too because they gave him Boost pudding in the hospital but said it was too sweet. I tasted it and it was way too sweet. We explained to the nurse about his nausea last night and she said she’d look into some medicine for it. But I know she’ll have to talk to a doctor before she can give him anything and it’s the weekend. So another waiting game. He’s lost 30 lbs and will keep losing if he doesn’t start eating. He looks good and that’s what he weighed when we got married but he needs the food for energy.


I drove over to Donna’s house yesterday and went with her to see Dad. She’s going to bring my car home today and we’re going to go get an estimate on getting it fixed. I turned too quick backing out of the garage Thursday ran into the side of the garage and did a number on the front fender and light. Mum’s the word because I don’t want Dad to hear about it and worry about me. The insurance deductable is only $250 and I get a free rental car while it’s being fixed so that’s not bad. I can drive it around town but the light is loose and I’m afraid to get on the freeway because it might come loose and fall out. It’s like my car’s eye has been knocked out of its socket but just loose and not dangling and the lights and signal still work. There’s also a dent in the fender and the bumper so they will both need to be replaced. Poor Slate (that’s my car’s name). I talk to him all the time and thank him for being such good dependable car then I beat him up. Ha.

Mike came over yesterday and mowed the grass and it looks nice. We’ve had lots and lots of rain and everything is growing including all the weeds. The YW are going to come on Wednesday night and weed Dad’s garden. I know they don’t realize how bad it is so I told the leader that they just need to do the tomatoes and peppers and maybe the YM can have a project for cleaning out all the rest that’s through producing. After they clean it all out I’ll have someone till it all up.

Everyone has been so kind in offering help in my time of need. I haven’t had to ask for much so far but I know that I will need more when he gets home. It’s good that it happened now after all the gardening, freezing and canning has been done and the grass won’t need mowing for much longer and we can concentrate on getting him well during the winter months. The back right signal light on the car went out and my HTer replaced it for me and when I needed a ride to visit Dad on Thursday a very good friend had previously told me that anytime I needed a ride to see him she would be glad to take me so she did. (Donna wasn’t able t go that night). My LDS neighbor up the road called and told me they were here for me anytime if I ever got scared at night or heard someone prowling around call them before I called 911 and they’d be here quicker than the police. That was so thoughtful of her. I put their number in big letters on the wall (clarification - it's on paper) by my bed so I won’t have to find my glasses and look up their number in the ward list. That gave me peace of mind even though I haven’t felt scared (yet). My Baptist neighbor came down for a visit the other day and commented on how good our church is about helping people, even not of our faith. So people notice. I am so thankful for my church friends.

So that’s it from here for now.
I love you all very much.
Mom

Angie's dress from Belk

Cute, eh? Wet head an all after her shower ;)

Last nights events

I really love this convenience store now. :) this is also my new favorite sign!!


After seeing dad we spotted a pretty rainbow


Then a trip to Belks "going out of business sale" in the OLD Macon mall. These were not purchased however fun to try in ;)

My baby is all grown up!


OohLaLa!


Very classy, eh?





And last but not least an article from the paper on Monday about the hospital dad was in. It really is/was a good hospital.


And there you have it. What we really bought was a cute maxi dress for Angela and this dress for Liz



Looks better ON.
And a very nice wool peacoat for Angela - a $250 coat for $50. Even then on a growing child I made sure it fit Liz too as she's done growing and worse case she inherits it if/when Angela outgrows it ;)

FW: Dad update

On Sep 5, 2012, at 9:52 PM, "Martin and Marilyn"  wrote:

I have very good news tonight. Dad is doing much better, he's breathing better, his urine is clearing up and he actually can move his leg a little. I know Donna's blog yesterday didn't sound like he was making much progress, but what a change today!! When he first went into the center some ding-a-ling mentioned it would be a year before he would be back to normal and I thought that was a stupid thing to say to someone laying in bed, paralyzed on one side and very depressed. But then the nurse today said something like 3 weeks goal on going home. Of course we know he won't be back to normal then, but at least that's a goal and he has improved a lot in just 2 ½  days out of the hospital. He said he really didn't have much therapy yesterday, they mostly just talked to him, but today they put him through the ringer. He was ready for sleep by 6 both nights. I just hope he doesn't get visitors later on as the visiting hours are 4:45 to 9. I'd hate for people to drive all the way up to Macon and find him sound asleep and I'd especially hate for them to wake him up. He needs his sleep.

I've had a busy two days. I told you about yesterday and today I did errands and went shopping some more for clothes for him. Now I have to go back and exchange things tomorrow. I tried to find a robe for him but  stores don't carry them until winter. He said tonight that he didn't really need one. They didn't put his shoes on him today for some reason so he said he had sore toes from them rolling over them and stepping on them. His shoes were in the closet so I put them out on the floor with socks tucked into them so they'd see them tomorrow. He still hasn't got his appetite back but Donna said  one of the side effects of Cuminin is lack of appetite and nausea and he said he felt nauseous after eating a few bites tonight. I should have remembered to tell them that he will drink strawberry boost, that should help. He told the nurse that he would trade his bowl of pineapple for fruit cocktail so she got some for him.  So some of the nice nurses try to please. She even went back to his old room and found his deodorant that got left there. It's the little things.

While he was in the hospital he said he wanted me to give the jalapeño peppers that were in the fridge to 3 different people. I never got around to it and figured they were rotten by now but low and behold they were still good so I delivered a couple of baggies today and will dililiver  the other one tomorrow. I found out my right turn signal was out on the car so I asked Dennis if he'd fix it for me. He's a mechanic. So tomorrow I'll go to the car store and get a bulb and take it to him to fix. That is the first thing that I've had to ask for help with but I'm sure there will be many more times before Dad get better. So I'll do that, go to the store for milk, to Wal-Mart to exchange some stuff for a larger size and deliver the last of the peppers. Then it's back to the center tomorrow evening. Today I talked to the case worker and had some questions answered and he made notes of my concerns (very nice guy). Thursdays they have their weekly meeting with the nurses, therapist, doctor and case worker to make decisions and goals and he said he'd have more to tell me then.

So that's all for tonight. I love you all and will try to keep you abreast of things now that I have some time at home.

XXXOOO

All very true and I think Mom and have taken turns being the "negative Nelly" and, well, Tuesday was just a bad day.  Now fast forward to Wednesday night and it's all true.  He's even LOOKING much more chipper, however Mom did say that he really perked up with the girls and I arrived.  I had a plan for yesterday – get Liz from school and dash to Macon to see Dad, let the girls see him again, as the first time they saw him, he was in the hospital.  Even though at that time he was MUCH improved from the first week, he was still on the lower side of improvement.  Yesterday, however, made them feel MUCH better and happy about how Grandpa is progressing and seeing that he could move his leg was a shockingly good thing!

It wasn't SMALL moves this time of just the toe and having it stop after a few small moves, this was the whole leg from the knee and done a few times with a lot of thought and effort.  So, things are healing in the noggin' and connections are coming alive again.  Slowly but surely.

Go Dad, Go!

We didn't stay long and Ill post another post on what we did after we left Dad.  We took the opportunity to dash out when the doc came in to discuss blood in his urine… yeah, that was a good time to take kiddo's out of the room.  J

Rehab...

Rehab is BAD in that they make dad sit for three hours between PT sessions.

Rehab is GOOD in that they make dad sit for three hours gaining stamina and building muscles sitting in a chair between PT sessions.

 

It’s such a double edged sword.  You know it’s good for him, and yet, the empathic side wants to make this easier for him… the logical thing is to just suck it up and know he’s building stamina as things are going.

The only other issue that still concerns me terribly is that 1) Coumadin levels are high 2) there is blood in his urine again.  There is still an issue with mind and body working in conjunction to give ample notification to allow hand and body to get together to make everything come together to get urinal in place, and get things “done” in the right order.

 

I know in my heart of hearts it’s killing him to have to do the things he has to do at this point.  It breaks my heart to see him so down hearted at where he is right now.  I need to be a better cheer-leader and reinforce the fact that there are bigger things still going on in his head. 

 

Bigger connections being made and the others, in time, will come.  It sucks for now to be this dependant on others… but the reality of it is, walking and coordination and BIG muscle things are taking over the brain function for now.  You don’t really want to compare him to a toddler, but really that’s where the brain is… the brain is in the mode of trying to get BIGGER things in order, get new paths.  With toddlers, the reality is, potty training backslides when the big muscles are in work, when other learning is going on, some things just take a backseat. 

 

It’s harder when you’re an adult, and you KNOW what you can/should know how to do in regard to that level.  And, let’s face it, more than a bit humiliating to be in this situation.  How can you balance the knowledge that this is short term with the anger that this is going on in your head?  How can you support an aging parent to let them know that this isn’t the worst that could happen – you SAW the worst when you witnessed the stroke. 

 

There are MUCH worse situations.  They could be strapped in to a bed, drooling and unable to speak a coherent word.  Potty problems are NOT the worst that could be…   It’s such a sucky fine line right now…

 

Really, really sucky.

Dad has escaped...

Well just the hospital for now. He's in Central Georgia Rehab Hospital now - room 410. Visits are limited to 4:45 - 8:00 but I think in the beginning he won't make it to 8:00 if they work him as hard as I think they will.

It seems like a nice facility and I hope they take great care of him and get him improving daily.

I think dad really needs to see some improvement... It would sure lift his spirits if he can see some improvement.

Keep him in your thoughts and prayers for continued improvement so he can make it home!!

Backyard flowers

I'm finally getting color in the back yard and building on it slowly.





Sure wish year would bloom together. There is the bright red and some pink. The red is my favorite however found the pink in the clearance isle at Lowes - a new favorite clearance area! Silly people don't you know these plants bounce back and will be beautiful? It's how I got half the daisies. Can't beat $.29 each!


These too are rescue plants the closer one had a harder time bouncing back however joined its twin in blooming finally!!


Wisteria is going crazy!! Grapes. Well, they may have to go they have seeds and are tough.


This is a start from dads plant. Loves where it is and is taking over the pot ;)


My potato plants are blooming. You would have doubted my sanity buying the at $.25 because they were barely twigs with two or three leaves. Look at them now! The other rescues in with them not doing quite so well. But that's life with rescue plants. Some work, some don't.

The verdict is in on the stones

They are oxalate based.
Do you know what foods are high in oxalate?
http://www.ohf.org/docs/Oxalate2008.pdf shows you all you wanted to know.
Now the mystery is solved as mom and dad grow pecans.... Yep guess what is high in oxalate... *ding*ding*ding* you guessed it - pecans. Whoops. Guess pecans are out from now on!!

Saturday

My services are not required today....what to do, what to do....
Yard. I've had these wall bricks since the 20th. Along with the daiseies I did rescue that same week. It's time to put them in. So here's what I did this morning.



Naked dirt


Tiny wall


With pea gravel (both sides) and backfill


Me after. In reality by then I slipped into the pool clothes and all. I have gone on to poison weeds and salt the pool. However. I should tackle THIS but I don't want to:

Friday medical update

We hit the highlights with knowing that Dad is going to rehab on Monday (I'll have you know every time I say "going to rehab" the Amy Winehouse song starts in my head!).  That being said, there are a few medical updates.

Kidney swelling isn't any worse/better.  They are in a 'watch and see' mode.  I guess that's better than getting into a slice and dice mode.  I'm OK with wait and see, however with the removal of liquids for over 12 hours, I think they have done a number on poor Dad.  Now his urine is very very dark.  (as in darker than tea dark... almost coffee dark.. maybe a weak coffee). 

Yeah, I'm sure everyone in Blog-land is shaking their head.  Believe me, so am I.  I never thought that I would be critiquing my own fathers pee... but here we are.  I guess in reality, as we age, this really should be what we know of and think will become the reality.  Maybe it's because I was so young when my fathers mother was ill and I wasn't exposed as it was child.  Mostly it would seem that it's the daughters who are involved in the care of elderly parents.  It's not a bad thing, it's just the nature of the beast - we tend to be the caregivers later in life.  Hum... wonder if this is why mom and dad moved closer to one of their daughters?  Hum...

OK, I'm waxing poetic as I have a keyboard, a real keyboard to work with.. yeah.  I stole Elizabeth's computer.  Whoop!

So, anyway - kidneys have issues, but not bad ones.  Urine dark, however nurses are not acting too concerned about that fact.  Dad's getting mad because we're pushing and pushing nutrition and drinking of water which is really, really bugging him.  I don't blame him and was trying to nicely tell him that mom is pushing him simply because she wants him stronger and healthier because she wants him to get stronger and well faster so he can come home.  She doesn't want to live alone!

I understand where they are both coming from and I'm sure it's annoying as all get out to be pushed food all the time..  but it has to be for now.  Maybe when he's in rehab and can't have us around to bug him at all meals and have a LOT more and different friendly faces who are having the same or similar issues as him it will be a blessing for both of them. 

The bottom line is that most of the physical issues seems to be behind him, now it's the long road back to getting back to daily life and improving function so that he has mobility.  Right now that's the biggest goal.

Something that I haven't talked about is progression in rehab IN the hospital.  I think this is the third day rehab proper.  He was sitting in the chair for a few times after coming back to the room, however I think the nurses put a stop to that as they aren't that familiar with the tools that are used to get those needing a lot of assistance up and into bed again.  As of yesterday he graduated from stretcher for his return to returning in a wheel chair.  I think this morning they took him down in a wheel chair as well, however, I'm not sure - as Mom and I had bailed out just as they had finally come to get him for rehab.  Anyway - he's still a three person assist in and out of bed.  Two strong men can do it, however, he's not got enough strength back in his leg to really help out enough at the end of a session downstairs, so it's a bit harder for him to assist as much as needed for little nurses (sorry nurses everywhere, but if you're not trained in this, it's HARD - I can see that!). 

Anyway, found out that he took a few steps the other day with a walker and today he took more steps with a hemi walker.  The rehab folks are still trying to determine which walker will be best for him.  I think that the hemi walker seems to be the answer for him with a weakened left arm/hand.  However with time, and strengthening, maybe a full walker would be better for him.  I guess we'll see what the true rehab gets him set up with. 

The following shows someone walking with a hemi walker:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z1YhfI8HCXc 

I'm always amazed when I find out just how much is effected with stroke - bowels, urinary, cognitive and response times.  And I know it's trivial to me, but I'm sure it's mortifying for dad to have to have help.  He's such an independent person.  I did tell him roofs are OFF LIMITS now.  ha - for those of you who know Mom has been saying this for years when he was going to someones house for the church who was having roofing done... and where would you find dad???  ON the roof.  Sigh.  Yep.  at 80 years old, ON the roof.  Goodness.  I'm afraid if he gets mobile enough he'll go back on roofs... I told him they are TRULY off limits now.  :op  yikes!!

Ok, so I'm rambling now.

Friday!

That day typically denotes huge happy dances... This Friday not so much. This Friday is business as usual. Work, hospital, home.

The question has been asked about if there are plans for release from the hospital.

The answer to that is as if today, yes, the plans are for a move to rehab on Monday.

Why Monday? Reasons number 1 is its a three day weekend. What a crock, eh?
Reason number 2 is the better reason. They need to get his cumadin levels to a therapeutic level and have it stable. So we have two days to accomplish that.

In the meantime mom and I went to check out the rehabilitation. It was very nice. Hope dads there on Monday. I think it would do him a world of good.

Update

Ultrasound is ordered for kidneys.
When the pain was going in an ultrasound was performed and there was swelling more so than after surgery. So another ultrasound has been ordered by the urologist. And we wait. Which is needed but really the wait is not easy when there has been no liquids since midnight. And it's now 10:30am. No liquid no food.

Come on already.

So far we're on: Low dose lasix, and his normal daily medications, that's it.

Breathing is wonderful and down from 102 +/- to 86 much better. Thinking that a lot of the issues at hand were due to too much fluids for too long.

I think that the lasix is helping quite a bit. Not sure how that reflect for the kidneys.... I know they were pushing liquids in the beginning to flush the kidneys.

Just talked with the doc Gudapadi and found out they went NPO (nil per os - snooty for nothing by mouth) as they were thinking he would need a stent replaced on his right (surgery recipient) kidney today. Then after looking at his levels rethought the need for that. sigh. Nothing like leaving an old man hanging while they make up their minds all the while not asking what HE wants. Really? He's already said NO to most invasive things until he's feeling better

So unless there is something causing major damage right now he's going to "opt out". Good enough for me and well within his rights and we'll step in if we think his decisions are not sound. So far all choices are within reason. The heart patch can wait and is debatable on being the cause and the "be-all" fix so it can wait and/or not be done at all.

AND his nurses pointed his lowered mood to the doc as well and Zoloft is in board. I truly think that just getting OUT of here and improving a bit each day will be good too. Zoloft will just be icing on the cake to help him through. Plus it's a super low dose just to take the edge off.

WHOOOOP!!!

I just got a GREAT call from mom  - dad moved his toe ON PURPOSE!!!!

Yep, the left one is on the move!

YEAH!!

 

Update

PT is doing wonders.
Left side:
Arm lifting to shoulder
Finger grip doing better
Nothing to report on the foot.

Getting stronger in the right as well.

Now he's to help with a lot more. He's to do more and more for himself and figure out how to get it done. So that's the goal.

Appetite is still crappy. However he's eating a few things just not what we think should be eaten. But I guess in reality not moving = less need for calories. Nothing tastes good to him.

We're waiting for the nephrologist now. Kidney that he had the surgery is swollen more than in the past However the pain from last night could have been indicative of a stone or blockage that could have passed or shifted.




And an afternoon of MUCH needed rest by those who need it!

Today's happenings

Today started well but lunch time found us with a huge pain in the side. Literally. Big pain in the right side. To the point he couldn't take a full breathe. So a series of X-rays and ultrasounds to see what is causing issues.
And another set of tests and holding for results :o/

Poor dad.

However on the upside PT is doing wonders for his left hand. He can now do a bit of pinching and lifting his hand about twice as high now. So progress is being made even with a few setbacks.

The foot is being a little more stubborn, however has good sensation so there is confidence that movement will return in time.

The other positive is that the hallucinations have eased and should be completely resolved by now. Now if we can get everything else eased up and well be doing better.

Views

View out the window (from my corner if the couch)



View of the small hall where the last in the yellow dress was yesterday. And dad watching a ball game right now.



Mom at the other end of the couch in the rooms chair.
The kids art work us above her head on the column more facing Dad.

Standing in the hospital hall

I noticed this



Cool picture... Right up my alley. But the noted this



Yes an Autry. What a coincidence, eh?

There are quite a few if her pictures in the halls up here.

More on what's been seen

Someone suggested we document what's been seen today.
So you know that he had visions of walking the halls and being kidnapped by someone last night. He told mom this morning he would point out the SOB...

By the time I got there the nurses came in to bathe him, so we stepped out and he was less on the kidnapping and more on tying to call mom...even though she was right there in the room in front of him. He finally settled into the bed and started batting at things in front of him and insisting there were webs on his tissues. The he was paddling at the ball infringing of him towards the TV.  There was also an episode where I was sitting at his head and he was looking towards the entrance to the room asking if we could see the lady in the yellow dress??  Uh, no.. No one was there.  Then the lady was drawing on the wall with black markers or marks. He asked a few times about her.. But at least she was pleasant and no one he knew that was already dead talking with him...that would have pushed mom over the edge.  Mom and I really thought he was loosing it. 

We talked to his internist who said it could be an infection and the neurologist also said the same thing...all the time the nurses had the knowledge of him having an Ambien and talking smack last night.  Sigh. Lack of communication.  

AFTER we talked to the nurse who finally talked to us about the Ambien and bad he had been to physical therapy and was wore out. So when did the cardiologist choose to show?  Yep then.

He was NOT amiable to the hole fix, he was not amiable to much....and with the insult of that drug was no longer eating either...  Sigh. We finally let it go and he finally drank the ensure before I left.
After all the discoveries of drugs and half lifes of Ambien this could be 49 hours to be out of his system fully. Lesson learned NO Ambien.

Anyway...after the discovery of Ambien the actions of reaching for webs from the ceiling and complaints of lint all over the bed frame were now funny rather than concerning ;). What a difference a little information makes, eh??

Mystery half solved.

Just found out they gave dad an Ambien last night and he was really out if his mind last night. Guess it really can have some weird reactions with folks and had he been mobile he would have be traveling the hallways
Apparently this isn't that uncommon a reaction. Good to know. Scary!!
So he very well could still metabolizing that drug out of his system.
So wonder why the doc didn't know of this? Goodness talk about lack of communication. I thought government was bad. Wow! It's everywhere!!
In the mean time they still had the order in for a chest X-ray. So it's been done (bedside) and a urine test to look for infection there too just in case.
Temps are holding steady he was:
99.6 @7;
98.5 @ 12;
99.4 @ 4
So not really screaming infection but his side with the stone surgery hurts. That's not a good sign.
And were getting complaints of lint all over the bed and webbing from the ceiling like spider webbing. according to dad it's a very dirty room. And I DO have my glasses on and I see NO webs at all.
And just for Linda I stopped the X-ray tech after dads X-ray JUST for this picture ;)

The X-ray machine has a cute face ;)

One step forward two steps back

Came in today and found that dad had some weird hallucination if being kidnapped and taken to other areas of the hospital.
He was also back on his IV fluids.
The nurse had already turned it off and had questioned if he needed them as well as he was doing well on other aspects.
Yesterday had a lot if blood in the urine however today the catheter is out and the blood issue has resolved from what we can see and the tech confirmed that issue was resolving.
So to recount:
Back off of the IV after being back on last night
Off the catheter
Off oxygen
On PT
Hallucinating
Breathing a bit labored today as well
And still no doctors to talk with yet.

What was left off of yesterday's post

What we left off yesterday's post was:

Dad has trouble getting IVs from all the scaring on his arms from the grafts for his thumb in the 60's so they've blown more than a few veins. The site he's had for a while was getting quite sore so they tries to get liquids through the neck one he received when he went to ICU. Well it's what they call positional as its easily cut off by, you guessed it, position. So, although it works for meds it wouldn't work for an IV. They tried for another site (twice) and it was a no-go... Then I talked to Damian (MD) and he suggested if dads drinking well we could convince them to loose the IV. Because he's still on the heart monitor they have to have IV access "just in case" so I pointed out the neck works just not for IV so why not just leave it and "see how he does" as his sore site won't be reused anyway and they stuck him twice in the left side without success. They're really no worse off at this point... So quit sticking him an see if he's getting enough liquids by mouth. They agrees and we're off the IV.

Damian also suggested he could be getting too much liquid this way if he's getting it orally and it could be what was causing the labored breathing as well. So one less insult.

In addition to that we mentioned the blood (just specs, don't worry) in his coughing and the doc asked how he was doing in oxygen. He's been at 100%. In addition Damian had said there was no real reason for oxygen at this time and it was low volume as well. I didn't even bring that up to the doc but SHE suggested he get off oxygen and see how he does.

The good thing in that is speech clears right up so I can tell its simple extreme dry mouth/throat causing a lot of that issue.

So less insults to Injury and he's feeling more like a free man. You can see it in his reactions. Treat him like a well man and he becomes a well man.

I'm thinking we're past the worst of this and really feeling that Monday he will be moved to rehab.

Wonderful wonderful news!

Guess who's UP?? Yep! Dad.
Physical therapy is in progress and (drum roll please) he ate ALL his dinner - yeah right after we got him some ensure because he wasn't eating.

Saturday Dad update

Physical therapy is now approved after discussions via phone with the medical services. So that's good news as he really really needs to start moving as he's getting weaker and weaker laying here.

Breathing is still very labored but no crackling in the lungs so pneumonia is still not suspected.

He's a bit more slurred and really slowing down. Not sure if this is due to the whole fact of being down for five days now and being just slap wore out from any activity or not.

So physical therapy will be here today. Sometime.

Temps back down.

Temp is down and mom is staying the night...I left her with the packed lunch for dinner...and headed home. Bad daughter, bad daughter! To my defense there's only one bed....so I'll be back in tomorrow morning to see results of the tests from today.

This afternoons happenings.

MRI complete ultrasound MRI complete ultrasound complete. Now we wait for the answers as to if there are clots in the in the groin area. He's had some visitors. Now he's breathing hard. Not sure if it's the activity if MRI or the visitors or the combo that's doing him
In on his breathing. His sats are good but he's hot
now. 100.6 now what the crap?
Lungs clear on listening to them.
More wait and see.

Shifting and changing

Echo was rough apparently they were supposed to have us leave the room and they got started but they forgot and there we were.

I'm sure most can't stand to watch this stuff but even though it was rough I'm glad I was there. I watched his breathing and oxygen on the monitors so I know with all the gurgles and gagging all was really still well and results would be forthcoming soon enough. So we stayed and watched the torture continue until the bitter end.

When all was said and done were in for more tests. Now we're in a "Where's Waldo" hunt for the clots as its not in his heart. Next set if tests will be another MRI in his lower extremities and an ultrasound on his groin.

And the hunt continues.

Hearts and such.

Not a clear picture it was dark in here. Heart echo done. Found a small hole in the top part of his heart. This is the main suspect. The mini stokes appeared to be old and new so... Now they look at fixing that to avoid more strokes. The heart docs will confer and see what they will do. It could be mess it could be surgery. Hurry up and wait. More test more folks talking. And we wait...

Sense of humor

For those in our family you'll appreciate the morbid humor we have. While talking with dad about what he could remember about the episode I teased him that I couldn't even give him flack about "don't go into the light" and the fact they were shining a flashlight in his eyed during all this.
Fast forward to today when he asked mom for a dees-a-da, which for those non family members was moms childhood statement for wanting a drink of water. I joked with him not to tell the nurse that or he would be getting folks running in QUICK. So, yep, you guessed he he told the nurse he had asked for a dees-a-da earlier. Boy the nurse whipped her head to us on that one - ha! NOT nice of him but shows where we are right now.
On to the medical stuff for today. Last nights MRA showed a series of mini strokes in the back region. The original damage is in the frontal area so this is new and now throws suspicion on the heart and clots breaking off for there and going to the brain.
The order was put in for a trans-esophageal echo to look at his heart much closer. So we waited and waited then found out at about two thirty that they were going to do the test tomorrow morning at 8am. Sigh. The good news is that we will know right then what they see as they do it in the room. So first thing we get to see if the heart is the issue.

Still chipper

Proof dads doing "OK"


See good color and doing well. Still a people person and knows 99% of the nurses and doctors by name.

Stoke of bad luck.

I’ve always said I was going to use this blog as a journal of sorts and was going to put everything in here and print it annually – so for I have done this, but there has been no BAD.  There has been bummer news, bad things to the house, but nothing this personal, however, it is life and it’s mine, so here it is.

 

Wow, how to start this update…

 

From the beginning:

Monday: Dad went in for kidney stone surgery and came through that OK, or appeared to, anyway. 

Tuesday: 9am mom noted he wasn’t using his left arm for a lot of things and it was weak.  Well, he hadn’t started as surgery was Monday and he was pretty loopy Monday from what I hear – you see, until now, this was still considered “one night” as a precaution for bleeding stay.  By 2pm the hospital was confirming a stroke.  There was nothing they could do for him on any level as he had just come out of surgery and couldn’t get blood thinners or he would bleed out.  So… they waited.  He had lost use of his left leg (as in no wiggle, but sensation) and partial loss of his left arm.  It was weak, however he could lift it over his head, but it would “drift” down or to the side.

Wednesday: He was grabbing his cup a little better with his left hand and having more control over movement and they had him starting his rehab.  The rehab gals came in  and they had him up sitting and even had him standing with a walker for a few minutes.  He was teasing the nurses and was sitting fairly well, when he would list back, he would stare at the nurse and pull him self back to sitting and eye to eye with the nurse.  She teased him that she thought he was coming in with a pucker and he teased her back that he was…  When they sat him down he was farther down to the end of the bed, so they  were having him scoot to the head of the bed.  While he was scooting, he got two scoots in and close to the middle of the bed, then his left arm went slack and he fell over into the bed and had what appeared to be another stroke.  He was totally non-coherent at that point and couldn’t even respond, or open his eyes.  They were asking him how he was and he responded with a “Fafdlkajdf aadfaf Fafdalfd Hadfasdf safdaf fawerae wafead”… Mom looked at me and said “you know what he was saying don’t you?  Well, of course, typical dad answer – “Fine as Frog Hairs Split Four Ways”.  No one else would have gotten that one, but it was so typical Dad that even though I was rattled and tearing up, I knew he was still “in there”… I did wonder if he knew that this was all going on and if he was in there in his body totally freaking out… or if he even really knew what was going on…  They shined lights in his eyes and you could tell he was saying “bright light”… and he was trying to squeeze hands when asked, but he was using his right hand and he reaching over.  His motions were jerky and he was having trouble keeping his eyes open and slowly stopped responding.  We really thought we were loosing him.

 

The whisked him away to do a CT scan and other tests – and moved him to ICU.  We were moved down there to wait until they were done with him and when we walked in he was speaking again, slightly slurred, but speaking and coherent.  It was a shocking recovery from where he had just been.  He’s lost a little more movement in his left hand, if the sheet is on there, he couldn’t lift it, however he still has sensation in all limbs, just not movement.  He’s still able to wiggle fingers, however limited and can only lift his arm about 6 – 12” off the bed now instead of over his head.  So, setback, but not down and out yet.

 

He’s still in great spirits and teasing the nurses.  He did, however start a strange tick of blinking and opening his mouth.  We did bring this to the nurses attention and she was watching him and evaluating him.  Regretfully there still appears to be nothing that can be done at this point – we’re still in a wait and watch mode as they can’t thin his blood other than with an aspirin.  The good news?  Urine output is good, color is good and he’s in good spirits.

 

I’ll see if he’ll agree to a photo today to show everyone he’s OK…

 

More pantry storage ideas

My pantry is small. Too small until today I have had two white board calendars on the door. Those will need a new home now. The good news? I like the instant access idea. I like the room it gives me on the shelves.

Back entry change up

There has been a change up to the back entry. The hose rules are gone. Let's face it. It our disfunction, no one really followed them ;)

I found this cute iron key holder at goodwill a few days ago and couldn't resist!


And a close up:


I'm thinking brown vinyl above saying "home tweet home". What do you think? Too cheesy?

Meteor shower observation deck

Last night there was a meteor shower and the clouds cleared in time for us to see some. I stayed outside until midnight then the citronella candles did my sinus' in. I did see a few pretty good meteors before I gave up and went to bed :). The older two stayed out much later..and are still sleeping or I would ask them how the peak was. It was to peak between 1 and 2 am. Yeah. I still can't quite do that timeline!